My snoring supposedly was the cause of my wife not wanting to sleep with me, but now I took care of it ?
and she is snoring. About a year ago when this started, I asked my wife to wear ear-plugs, as she complained about my constant snoring keeping her up. I decided enough is enough, after not sleeping together for over a year and our sex life suffering, I went in for a sleep test and I was diagnosed with sleep apnea. Now I use one of those CPAP masks. Its hard to get used to and I still have some nights where it bothers me.
Problem is since she has gained weight, after having two babies, now she snores and its loud. I wake her up and she gets soo frustruated. I think its very unfair. I’ve asked her to get it under control and she ignores me.
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Filed under: Sleep Apnea Symptoms
in my opinon this is what i done to my husband..he said i grin my teeth to where it will wake him up at night,well as for him,he’s gained a lot of weight too and he stop breathing many times in the middle of the night and i have to practically "punch"him in the rib to wake up…and he snores really bad and very loud…well i took a recorder and recorded him one day and he couldn’t believe what he heard…since then he’s kept his mouth shut…and as for the mask,yeah those things are pretty scary,and that does throw off some,intense nights,if you know what i mean…do u have a nabulizer? use that if you have one right before you go to bed…and prop a few pillows under your neck…you should breath a little better…use the cpap machine only when you think you need it…my ex had to use one and he refused to wear it,considering the looks at it…your not the only one…
why dont you have sex before falling asleep? youre not making any sense.
leave the fat hog
just tell her to go get a sleep test
or go back to sleeping apart again.
and maybe it’s not because she has
gained weight i know a few ppl who
have some weight on them and they
dont snore. i don’t know sorry wasnt
much help.
I think that it’s your turn to KICK her out of the bed. Give her the choice to lose the weight or lose the snoring. And when U wake her up say " U were snoring again U little ONIK"
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Take your sleep mask off, if it bothers her, she’ll get her snoring fixed, don’t sleep apart..it can lead to a break-down of your relationship, you just need to reach a compromise.
O, this is an issue in my marriage…I snore…like a freight train!!! Sometimes he leaves the room and we only sleep together on the weekends as is…but I am aware I need to do something about it…I just haven’t had the time…I’m hoping mine is as simple as a CPAP mask, too. I’d be scared to have surgery…but I would if it meant him and I sleeping together…
Quit sleeping with her if it bothers you.
Dude I’m with you – just went for the CPAP test last night. I guess it takes care of the snoring / apnea, but I’m having trouble envisioning intimacy while I’m wearing a mask like I’m on life support. I guess we’ll see how it goes. I suppose it can be much worse – wife sleeping on the couch most nights now anyway… Maybe if you both get CPAP’s you’ll have something new in common and it will re-ignight your sex life. You can pretend you’re both astronauts or something.
You did what you could to fix the intial problem – now it seems that there is alot more to the situation.
You need to ask yourself honestly if you think that your wife "is still in to you" – because if she’s not and isn’t being honest with her feelings – then you will need to be the one to make the call.